Lately I can't get a little conundrum off my mind. Here it is.
When you and your lady-of-the-moment lay back on the pillows and take a deep breath of release after incredible sex, it's clearly an exhilarating moment for both of you. She gave you pleasure... you returned the favor.
But after you've returned to your regularly scheduled programming, which stands out as the more lasting mental satisfaction?
Is it the memory of your own physical rush and release, the intense sensation that she provided you? Or is it witnessing her hardened nipples and quickened breath...and knowing that through your own expertise, you rocked her world?
Lately I've come across some clients who clearly cared at least as much about my gratification as their own... and who later remarked on their happiness that they could please me. Others thank me profusely for what they receive, and seem content with that alone.
So, hobbyists and readers, to which camp do you belong? Or do you?
There are no points or penalties for either answer... so please comment!